Kui keegi ütleb sulle midagi, mis solvab või ärritab, siis mõtle hoolega järele - ehk on see midagi, mida mõtlesid hiljuti ka ise enesest? Tõde on see, et see on sinu peegeldus! /alkeemia.ee/
Kas oled pannud tähele, et kui sa midagi soovid, siis hakkad seda kõikjal nägema? Rasedaid, armunuid, reisijaid, edukaid jne. Kõik teised justkui saavad, välja arvatud sina. Ühelt poolt peegeldab see, mis parasjagu alateadvuses toimub. Teiselt poolt on oluline jälgida, mida sa oma mõtetega lood. Kas sa lood “kõik, peale minu” või “mina suudan ka” elu? /alkeemia.ee/
"Ise ta ju ütles, et ta ei saaks sellega kunagi hakkama."
"Ta ju alles õpib."
"Ta alles proovib, vaatame paari aasta pärast."
Ja neid näiteid on palju. Need on meie endi sõnad, mida teised on uskuma jäänud. /alkeemia.ee/
LAHE LUGU ARMASTUSEST JA SALADUSEST ("The Secret")
Some enchanted evening you're going to meet your soulmate, the perfect person who will meet all your needs and fulfill all your dreams. Right? Wrong! This fantasy that songwriters and poets are so fond of perpetuating has its roots in memories of the womb, where we were so secure and "at one" with our mothers; it's no wonder we have hankered to return to that place all our lives. But, to put it quite brutally, it is a childish dream. And it's amazing we hang on to it so stubbornly in the face of reality. Nobody, whether it's your current mate or some dreamed-of partner in the future, has any obligation to deliver your happiness on a platter--nor could they even if they wanted to. Real love comes not from trying to solve our neediness by depending on another, but by developing our own inner richness and maturity. Then we have so much love to give that we naturally draw lovers towards us. /osho/